What would the structure of our Unhappy Habits look like if we could actually see them?
The greatest choice we have is our ability to chose who we want to be and how we want to feel. Make that one choice and all other choices fall into line to support it.
a journey into alcoholism and how I stopped drinking
We only need willpower to resist doing what we desire, the things we do want to do, not the things we truly don’t. And because of our desire, it is the hardest, least successful method of long term change.
There is always a space, a pause, between your ‘I need a drink’ hijacked thoughts and the physical act of picking up the bottle, pouring a glass and then drinking it, and in that pause is immense power.