Willpower Is The Hardest Route

We only need willpower to resist doing what we desire, the things we do want to do, not the things we truly don’t.  And because of our desire, it is the hardest, least successful method of long term change.

How To Stop Drinking? Your PAUSE Power

There is always a space, a pause, between your ‘I need a drink’ hijacked thoughts and the physical act of picking up the bottle, pouring a glass and then drinking it, and in that pause is immense power.

Self-Care is not Selfish. The Top 10 Tips That Helped Me Stop Drinking

When I stopped drinking, one of the first things that I realized was that I had no level of self-care - or self-love, or self-respect.  Actually, thinking about it now,  I had no sense of 'self' at all. Thankfully I learn quick - for good and for bad it seems - and I understood that … Continue reading Self-Care is not Selfish. The Top 10 Tips That Helped Me Stop Drinking