why can't I change the way I drink

Your Heartfelt Cry is “Why Can’t I Stop?” I have the simple answer

During my drinking years, my first waking thought was a dull, painful, despairing “What's wrong with me?”, a thought that created the unexpressed sob of sadness, lodged, frozen in my chest, cooling the warmth of my loving heart , and all because I had drunk too much the night before, as I did every ‘night … Continue reading Your Heartfelt Cry is “Why Can’t I Stop?” I have the simple answer

Dry January & Beyond! Smashing 2019

My aim is to create a community of women who would like to understand or change their relationship with alcohol.  It doesn’t matter where you are now, it is just a snapshot of time.

Willpower Is The Hardest Route

We only need willpower to resist doing what we desire, the things we do want to do, not the things we truly don’t.  And because of our desire, it is the hardest, least successful method of long term change.

How To Stop Drinking? Your PAUSE Power

There is always a space, a pause, between your ‘I need a drink’ hijacked thoughts and the physical act of picking up the bottle, pouring a glass and then drinking it, and in that pause is immense power.

Understanding Your Drinking (part 2)

Last week’s blog on our road trip to Sobriety, was about the powerful and pervasive social conditioning around alcohol.  About the ‘why’ so many of us rush towards the ‘joy’s’ of drinking at each and every opportunity. Of what we are conditioned to feel that alcohol brings to our otherwise overstressed, time poor, slightly dull … Continue reading Understanding Your Drinking (part 2)