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Hello lovely….I hope your Christmas and New Year was peaceful and loving, and I hope your drinking wasn’t what you and your family will remember most….and not for good reasons…….

Now, as you move into January, and ‘normal’ life settles back in, how is your ‘New Year, New You’ mantra sounding to you?

And how are you FEELING about not only smashing Dry January, but changing your drinking for the rest of the year, for LIFE?

If you are doing Dry January, well done you!  Yyou are probably already feeling prouder and better, physically and emotionally – its amazing how quickly you perk up isn’t it?

Maybe you are already feeling more energized, sleeping better, less bloated, skin looking better- and right now, in the early days, you may well be feeling very hopeful that this time you have got it…..but as the month wears on,  the memories of other Dry January’s resurface, when you also felt hopeful and then inexplicably slid back in your old drinking patterns as the year wore on…..

You know at the very core of you that you want to make changes, and not just for January.

You know that you want to drink less consistently, to not feel out of control, and yet to still enjoy a social drink.  You know you want to feel better, look better, ACT better…you know deep within you that your drinking isn’t who you are, you just don’t quite understand how to stay in the sober space when it is your heart’s desire……your heart’s desire to be the mother/partner/hell, even the dog owner, you and your loves deserve, and yet there is also a creeping feeling of ‘loss’ at the thought of changing the very thing you do, drink, that you know takes you further from YOU.

What on earth is going on?

The truth is, once Dry Jan is done and dusted, a yearly box so proudly ticked off, you don’t just start drinking again…..the actual drinking process starts when your THINKING have start to slip back on their well worn track of you having to control or deny yourself a drink….these thoughts take a great deal of fearful energy, which creates the feelings of anxiety and deprivation around what you perceive you will miss from alcohol.

Does that make sense?

However, if you weren’t buying into your alcohol THINKING you wouldn’t be creating any anxious FEELINGS.

Everything you do is through a process of Think, Feel, Re-Act – re-acting being the drowning the woman you love in alcohol.

Your drinking always, always, ALWAYS starts not with the first glass, but with the THINKING that creates the FEELINGS that result in the first glass to COMFORT those FEELINGS…and on to the second, and on to the daily bottle.  This is the simple, always and forever TRUTH.

To give you an insight into how easy it is to let go of both the THOUGHTS and FEELINGS, that take you to drink, the feelings you misidentify as alcohol ‘cravings’, in one effortless step,  here’s one of my easiest, and instant relief from alcohol cravings, LIFE Recovery Coach Tips

Notice the FEELINGS that come up, starting in your gut (they always start there), of fear, anxiety, around alcohol.  This is the ONLY indication you need that your THINKING has slipped.

Next shift your awareness on to your THINKING  – again, your thoughts are the creator of those feelings, NOT ALCOHOL

Notice WHO YOU ARE when these lower THOUGHTS come up maybe you are tired, low, lonely, anxious about work/relationships, only you know. 

And then use this oh, so, simple technique to let both the THOUGHTS and FEELINGS go, without even attempting to address/understand/rationalise anything to do with ALCOHOL.

  • Create a PAUSE by,
  • Changing your BREATHING
  • INHALE through your nose for 5
  • EXHALE through your mouth for 7
  • Increase to an INHALE for 7
  • EXHALE for 11

Do this for just 2 minutes and your alcohol cravings will simply disappear.  I promise you, and if you have to do it 5 times in one hour, DO IT!

You are going to breath anyway, so CHOOSE the way you breathe…..It is as simple as that. 

My clients enjoy huge success, through my uniquely simple and empowering 6 week Rapid Alcohol Recovery Method coaching process.  Most  clients who follow the process, make the biggest change from WEEK ONE.

A number of my clients have spent at least one term in Rehab and struggled in the ‘real’ world.

Other clients have come feeling that they felt they were close to losing everything and some who just didn’t want to drink / eat, on a daily basis, in a way they don’t like.

All of them, when they trust the process (me) and work the simple tools (you), have found the balance they desired and deserve.  It will be the same for you too.

It doesn’t matter where you are now, or how long you have been struggling with your drinking, the peaceful way to LETTING GO  is within you all the time. 

If 2022 is YOUR time to put YOU first, to stop doing what you have always done (and getting the same sadder result), and to end your painful drinking struggle for LIFE, Contact me today.

Be kind and gentle with yourself

Sonia x

PS. If you would like to understand more about my journey from 28 years of alcoholism, to peaceful freedom, take a look at my internationally acclaimed book, This Isn’t Me (click on the link HERE), reviewed by Ranvir Singh of Good Morning Britain as “Beautiful & devastating”, wrote it for my son, as an apology for his younger years, and as an attempt to explain the un-explainable.

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